According to a report in the in 2008, the General Social Survey conducted by the University of Chicago shows that 10 percent of spouses—12 percent of men and 7 percent of women—admit to having cheated just within the past year.
Are there numerous calls to numbers you don’t recognize, especially at odd hours of the day or night? Or, if you have a history of cheating, why hasn’t she dumped you? Snooping your phone while you are in SURGERY, instead of, say, praying for you or waiting for you to get better is just CREEPY. CLEARLY none of you who say just leave have never been in the position where a relationship you’ve been in for 10 years went from good to stale to just f***ed up. And closure and catching him in the act or being flat out wrong is the only way I will get that.
You can often deterine who owns a particular landline number simply by entering the number into Google search. Check your spouse's cell phone's address book for names you don’t recognize. If your spouse is clever, he or she will be using a second cell phone—or just a second SIM card—-for communicating with their lover. So she waited, basically, until you were helpless and unable to defend yourself, and then went snooping. And IF (and that’s a big if) I’m wrong, why go through the trouble of being a shady douchebag????
Chances are your spouse won’t take the risk of entering the full name of the person he or she is cheating with, so look for numbers that are identified merely with initials or a first name. Check the text messages and email on your spouse's cell phone. Perhaps your spouse chose to save a couple of the steamy ones for later playback. Your spouse may also have been smart enough to purchase a pre-paid phone or SIM, so nothing will appear on your credit-card bills. If your spouse calls you from a cell phone number you don’t recognize, that may be cause for suspicion. Cheating is as old as the world, we all know that only that today it seems that more than every the cheating is proliferated and in some cases promoted.
Before crawling through their personal information, we advise consulting an attorney to ensure any electronic-eavesdropping or hacking laws aren't violated—if things get ugly, you don’t want that hanging over your head.
And, of course, be prepared to deal with the fallout should your spouse catch you snooping.
Text messages and emails are the modern means of sending love letters, and your spouse may have kept them on their phone for ongoing enjoyment. Try calling the other number when your spouse is home and see how they react. Youngest had to see Daddy pour hot coffee on Mommy after many other incidents…. Husband realized it was MY brother, stopped whipsering..stumbled over his words,said.. There are couples that brag about cheating each other.
If you happen to find an extra SIM card, stick it in a phone and see what phone numbers are stored on it. Check your spouse’s computer for any incriminating email messages. I am scared to lose kids, be alone, there is no way I should still be with him. Ppl that know him, say he is a flirt, always has been…always will be. All she needed to see was a few things and after this year of hell, for me and kids. Nor let me see Pay Pal creditcard statemeny, oe the other 3 cards maxed out while paying for all.those sites, trademark emails, u name it. If those people know they’ll be cheating, why do they get married in the first place? Before you confront your spouse and accuse them of cheating you need to make sure you have some solid proof.
Be sure to check the "deleted items" or "trash" folder. I thought things finally stopped until I heard a beep in kids room, yet xbox was gone. Confirming the odd number or numbers you find can be a big help.
People frequently let their discarded emails linger for weeks before they're permanently erased. Is your spouse planning a business trip to Cleveland while browsing hotels in Las Vegas? He has his family thinking Im just making this up!!??? Also…he is so secretive, such a liar that Im thinking he is using apps on sons xbox, which I found him on one day. A con….clearly whatever is going off in kids room, btw…we moved again! You may be able to simply show your spouse the number and get a reaction that makes them admit to their wrong doing.
You can’t turn on the news or open a newspaper without seeing a story about Tiger Woods’s family issues—along with salacious text messages and voicemails that he supposedly sent to his alleged mistresses. There have been many high-profile divorce cases and scandals that came to light through damning evidence generated by or stored on personal tech devices.
Of course, infidelity is not limited to celebrities, sports stars and politicians.