I was absolutely devastated and despite reassurance from my GP I'm terrified.
My GP told me that he had a patient that was being told by the hospital to have a D&C and he told her not to and she went on to deliver a healthy baby. Thanks I had something similar happen to me OP - I had a fresh transfer with my first ultrasound at 6w4d, good heartbeat, baby 6 days behind and sack was an abnormal shape.
The sonographer was very grim and I walked out of there in a flat panic convinced it was all over - I ended up in the toilets at Myer trying to pull myself together just so I could get on the bus home.
This is an IVF baby (frozen cycle with a 5dt) and I had my first ultrasound on Wednesday.
They found a heartbeat but baby is only measuring between 5w4d and 5w6d when based on my transfer date I should've been 7w2d. The sonographer said everything was good and it's just earlier than expected. However, I called the nurse at the IVF clinic because I wanted reassurance and she told me it wasn't a good sign and was talking to me like I'd already lost the baby.
Go straight to the top and ignore everyone else was what I learnt - FS knew me, knew what she was looking for in a viable pregnancy and was happy, so I stuck with her and ignored everyone else.
Anyway - that afternoon my FS called and was extremely upbeat and even congratulated me.I explained what had happened and she said that she was actually very happy with how things looked and that if she were me, she would be happy.I'm getting another scan next week at Sydney Ultrasound for Women as they have the best equipment and specialists so I can totally trust what I'm being told (my last pregnancy I was told twice baby was in my uterus and when I got another opinon at Sydney Ultrasound for Women they found it was actually in my tube and the other place had totally screwed up twice! I'm trying so hard not to worry but I'm really struggling.I'm so scared and just want to know if anyone has heard of this with it turning out ok?Hi ladies, I've totally lost track of the main thread and got lost very quickly with how fast it was updated.I've also been holding back in case something goes wrong as my last pregnancy was ectopic.